Families spend years together under the same roof, without feeling any real connect with each other. So called friends may hang out together everyday, yet remain oblivious to each others’ lives. Why some people are capable of offering help without being asked, while others are able to overlook when the other person clearly needs help? I believe the answer lies in genuine concern and kindheartedness.
A person who loves his/her family and friends to bits, even when his/her love and concern is not cent percent reciprocated, he/she will bear all hardships for them. And a kindhearted person will always be able to empathize with your pain, sorrow and hardship. Such people are always ready to lend you a helping hand, even when you don’t ask for it. There are so few people who genuinely care about other people, about their well-being without an ulterior motive. They check on you from time to time, even if you don’t care a fig about them. They genuinely care about you, and that makes all the difference.
If I care about you, I will be kind to you in the simplest of ways. It may simply mean getting you a glass of water or simply asking how you are doing. It is as simple as that.